
We arrived in Cape Town at 6.30am. After a 12 hour overnight flight we felt quite rested, having managed to get some broken sleep on the plane. We were fortunate enough to have as many rows of seats to sleep on as we wanted as the plane was barely scattered with passengers, around 30 in all.
My first introduction to South Africa was in the car on the way out of the airport as we drove past hundreds of makeshift houses, making up communities with no borders as they were built one on top of another, and another, and another, the members of which were streaming out in a steady flow to stand on the side of the motorway waiting to be picked up.
They were picked up in vans and
utes, and as we sat in traffic we watched countless cars driving past, their passengers on their way to work, the open back tray of the
ute heaving with people, cramped and sitting on top of each other. All of the passengers were black, with either a lone black person driving or occasionally a white person.
Normally I
wouldn’t refer to the skin colour or race of those I write about, purely because it is irrelevant. However in South Africa, colour is everything, not just black and white but ‘coloured’ as well. You are acutely aware that you are ‘white’, and that others around you are not, that those who live in the settler towns are ‘black’, that those who stand by the road selling wares are ‘black’, and that those who are ‘coloured’ (the term they use for mixed race) fit somewhere in between. There is a social order which is a hang-up from the days of
apartheid, and it is very clear that it has left a very distinct scar on it’s people.
As we sat watching the equivalent of cattle trucks driving past, ferrying ‘black’ people to work I was horrified and dumbfounded that they would not be afforded
seat belts and seats in a covered van like all the ‘white’ people around them.
"That’s Africa baby" remarked
Woz, a seasoned traveller in Africa … and so my education began.

After unpacking our bags we drove in to the city centre and down to the waterfront for fish and chips. After lunch we spent at least an hour watching traditional African dancers and singers in an amphitheatre on the waterfront.

Nate loved the music and dancing and joined in at every opportunity, kicking his legs in his buggy and clapping his hands. For years I’
ve loved the sound of African voices singing in harmony and I sat there I was pinching myself to think that I was sitting there listening to them in the flesh, in Africa. It was sitting there

that I realised what an incredible education this is to Nate, although probably too young to really understand most of it at his age.
In the afternoon we met up with Lindsay and Delilah and went with them to their official wedding ceremony along with their immediate family. In South Africa a marriage is only legal if it is performed in an approved venue, and as they wanted to be married on the beach they had to have the official ceremony the day before.
After the ceremony we met up with loads of their family and friends where we had a
braai (BBQ) to celebrate the occasion.
Woz, Nate and I were made to feel so welcome by their family and felt immediately at home.